Voting for the Book

Mon, May 31 2010 09:46pm PDT 1
Heather McClane
Heather McClane
12 Posts
TRIMUNITY’S SUMMER
ONLINE BOOK STUDY

WHETHER YOU PLAN TO PARTICIPATE OR NOT, PLEASE VOTE FOR THE BOOK YOU’D MOST LIKE TO READ AND DISCUSS OR SIMPLY OBSERVE AS OTHERS READ AND DISCUSS WE WILL SEEK AUTHOR PARTICIPATION FOR WHICHEVER BOOK GETS THE MOST VOTES.

VOTE FOR THE BOOK BY JUNE 20th

We will announce the book on July 1st.

• The Girls Who Went Away by Ann Fessler. "In this deeply moving and myth-shattering work, Ann Fessler brings out into the open for the first time the astonishing untold history of the million and a half women who surrendered children for adoption due to enormous family and social pressure in the decades before Roe v. Wade. An adoptee who was herself surrendered during those years and recently made contact with her mother, Ann Fessler brilliantly brings to life the voices of more than a hundred women, as well as the spirit of those times, allowing the women to tell their stories in gripping and intimate detail."

Birthright by Jean Strauss. "Despite the subtitle, “Birthright” is not your everyday how-to book. Strauss makes use of controversial opinions from columnists, authors and others to mirror a debate that continues years after she first wrote about it, in individual families, courts and public forums. Whatever our views, “Birthright” allows us to read side-by-side accounts from all parties and hear real people in their own words. While compassionate, Strauss doesn’t shy away from the strong emotions that many feel about and during search and reunion. Some of the stories bring tears and others produce an immediate rush of anger, but each serves the purpose of encouraging us to acknowledge our own feelings – wherever they fall within the spectrum. As we are guided through the steps, the author never lets us forget to consider our motives and the impact our actions (or lack thereof) might have – not only on ourselves, but also on others.

• Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge. "This extraordinary book, written by a woman who was adopted herself, gives voice to children's unspoken concerns, and shows adoptive parents how to free their kids from feelings of fear, abandonment, and shame."

• Not Remembered, Never Forgotten by Robert Hafetz. "...an examination of the resolution of an adoptee's emotional memories and the search for the authentic self."

• LifeGivers by James Gritter. The author "makes the persuasive case that if the institution of adoption exists to benefit children, then adopted children are best served when birthparents and adoptive parents work together to ensure that the birthparents remain a part of their children’s lives. Gritter challenges us to treat everyone involved in the adoption process--birthparents; adoptive families; and, above all, the children--with honor and respect."

Sponsored by The Adoption Healing Center
Tue, Jun 1 2010 07:42am PDT 2
Karen Ciandella
Karen Ciandella
1 Posts
My vote: Birthright by Jean Strauss. Participating as a First Mother

Karen Ciandella
theadoptionhealingcenter@gmail.com
Tue, Jun 1 2010 12:14pm PDT 3
Heather McClane
Heather McClane
12 Posts
My vote is also for Birthright
Wed, Jun 2 2010 05:39pm PDT 4
sue singleton
sue singleton
1 Posts
The Girls Who Went Away is my pick!
Wed, Jun 2 2010 09:13pm PDT 5
Ronnie McEntee
Ronnie McEntee
1 Posts
My vote is for Birthright also, mostly because I haven't read it yet.
Fri, Jun 4 2010 05:20pm PDT 6
Christine Paugh
Christine Paugh
1 Posts
I think Birthright is a good choice too.
Sat, Jul 10 2010 10:23pm PDT 7
Virginia Slater
Virginia Slater
1 Posts
I've read the book and would definitely recommend it.

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